Relacionamento Abusivo – Pensamentos.me/VEM comigo!

Eu me deparo todos os dias, com mulheres dizendo que não conseguem parar, sobretudo, não conseguem por fim ao relacionamento abusivo que vivem. E a resposta é: ” Conseguem!”. A mulher precisa compreender o que causa a sensação de insegurança e medo. Não basta se idolar, associar o sofrimento à purificação do sentimento, pensando que o parceiro/parceria vá mudar. A mulher tem que enfrentar os seus medos físicos e psíquicos, em muitos casos, quebrar o silêncio; movimentar-se mesmo dentro daquele ciclo vicioso. Quando mais cedo, ela consegue sair disso, mais acaba se afastado  do agressor; criando assim também a possibilidade de não sofrer violência e, acredite: fazer com que, essa violência possa  evoluir para um feminicídio.

Marii Freire. Relacionamento Abusivo

https://Pensamentos.me/VEM comigo!

Santarém, Pá 5 de março de 2024

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Source: Relacionamento Abusivo – Pensamentos.me/VEM comigo!

Happy and Joyful Life: – Silent Songs of Sonsnow

“Leaving aside the perspective of spiritual practice, even in worldly terms, in terms of our enjoying a happy day-to-day existence, the calmer our minds are, the greater our peace of mind will be and the greater will be our ability to enjoy a happy and joyful life.”

His Holiness the great 14th Dalai Lama

Source: Happy and Joyful Life: – Silent Songs of Sonsnow

समय नहीं / No Time – Kaushal Kishore

 

पता नही क्यों

मरने की बातें करते हैं

खामखाह लोग,

मुझे तो एक पल की 

फुरसत नहीं मिलती 

अपनी जिंदगी जीने से…

🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀

I don’t know why 

people unnecessarily 

talk about dying; 

I can’t spare 

even a moment 

from living my life…

*

–Kaushal Kishore  

Source: समय नहीं / No Time – Kaushal Kishore

Got Money to Burn? | From Behind the Pen

Image credit: Jp Valery

As I have gotten older and hopefully a little wiser, I evaluate my wants and necessitates even more now than I have in the past. I have tried to watch the amount of coins I spend throughout my life, although I have made some financial decisions that did not work out to my advantage. I couldn’t believe how gullible I felt when those investments didn’t pan out as planned. But, I am not too hard on myself for the sake of rookie mistakes because there are some spending decisions I didn’t deprive myself of, and later I saw where I wasted money. Oh, you can best believe that I tried to justify those decisions too, no matter how lame or irresponsible they were.

Yet, I cringe and shake my head when I see the amount of money being wasted on frivolous stuff that just seems to fly in the wind from wallets, like ashes floating from newspapers burning in a fireplace. Money that could be used for something like strengthening humanitarian causes which can make an empowering, substantial impact on so many, is a sadness I see and feel when such disposable income is wasted. But, this is my opinion and I try not to demonize someone if they have money to burn or blow as they wish. I have blown my fair share too, but have come to regret it later.

In our society, money is the cause of so many upheavals, especially when greed steps up to the plate. The love of it can be the root of all evil. Financial stress is one of the top reasons for divorce and can lead to debilitating health-related issues. There are also situations where I have seen a handful of people I know get a substantial lump sum of money and think it’s going to last a lifetime when they spend like there is no tomorrow. As my mom used to say to us growing up when we got money for whatever reasons, “I see that money is burning your hands so you have to get rid of it huh?” She knew we wanted to run to the store and spend it. Thank goodness my parents had the wherewithal to point us in a responsible direction when it came down to spending and saving, whether we heeded their advice or not.

Still, as I look at this point in my life, there are some things on my bucket list that I keep going back and forth on in my mind that I don’t want to waste time not doing and have regrets later. Got money to burn? Nah, I don’t. But I will say this, life is a precious commodity and to simply operate in fear of “What if there is an emergency?” and deprive yourself of a rewarding experience is just as horrifying. “What if there isn’t an emergency and you find yourself asking “If I coulda, woulda, shoulda?” We get to a place where sometimes we wait too long to do something and wish we would have made a move when we could have. Don’t burn your money. Keep it from anything flammable and use it wisely!

Image Credit: Alice Pasqual

Source: Got Money to Burn? | From Behind the Pen

La sonrisa de Lore – Santiago Galicia Rojon Serrallonga

Su carácter era firme, como una pieza inquebrantable de acero; pero su sonrisa -oh, su sonrisa, aquel poema que se reflejaba en su rostro y lo alumbraba- reflejaba un pedazo de cielo, un trozo del paraíso, acaso por proyectar la bondad de su ser, quizá por retratar la belleza y la profundidad de su alma, tal vez por eso y por tantos motivos que uno, a veces, siente, a pesar de no entenderlos, y de los rumores y los silencios, las luces y las sombras, las cargas y las liviandades…

Source: La sonrisa de Lore – Santiago Galicia Rojon Serrallonga

WHO DID HE BELONG TO? ‹ NANMYKEL.COM ‹ Reader — WordPress.com

He was curled up into himself like a babe,

 

the remains we found around the bend

beside the brook, as we perambulated

without a care until this old fellow

came into view. Poor, by his looks, and

quite dead and cold. Who did he belong to,

who had his heart?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

nm 2017   Image: Fredrik Raddum

Source: WHO DID HE BELONG TO? ‹ NANMYKEL.COM ‹ Reader — WordPress.com

¿QUÉ ES EL TIEMPO? by Neus Bonet i Sala – El plumier de Nenuse

Sí, soy una adicta al tiempo. Tengo hasta 4 relojes en el comedor y el de pulsera que llevo siempre. A veces pienso que tengo un TOC de tiempo, queriendo saber siempre la hora en todo momento. Pero lo peor fue el viernes pasado. Tenía hora a las 16h en el veterinario. Miré el reloj […]

¿QUÉ ES EL TIEMPO? by Neus Bonet i Sala

Source: ¿QUÉ ES EL TIEMPO? by Neus Bonet i Sala – El plumier de Nenuse

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