You’ll never be happy or satisfied as long as you continue to play the victim!
At some point in our lives, we all HAVE to learn how to heal from trauma. Until we do so, we must refrain from being toxic to others. Toxicity can manifest in various ways, such as facial expressions, body language, and attitudes towards others.
Playing the victim is exhausting!
“I’m not telling you what I heard; I’m telling you what I know.”
-Shannon Sharp
I used to moan and groan because I knew that I was slided as a child.
(Slang)Slided:to ignore: to do nothing about (something, such as another person’s mistake or bad behavior) : to ignore (something)
The things that I wanted and craved were denied, but I had to watch my brother being treated as if he were a God. He was able to play any sport he wanted; he received a brand-new CAZ before attending college, and his school was paid for IN FULL by our mother.
So, on top of growing up in a toxic house, all of these things were thrown in my face as well, and that made me mad.
The anger moved me right into the I’m a victim mode, well, until it didn’t.
Healing from anger can be beautiful; you see the blessings you were given because of what you went through. My past motivated me, and once I stopped playing the victim, I started to win at this thing called life.
Healing Process From Being The Victim
This can only happen once you give yourself permission to let go of everything that attempted to destroy you. They didn’t destroy you because you’re still standing.
And once you recognize that you are blessed enough to be here, the winning process can begin. It’s funny how you start to see the beauty in everything and how your energy attracts like energy.
Wishing you love, light and complete healing.
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~
Source: One Line Is All I GOT ~5/9~ – Belladonna’s Flashlight

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