MATURE KIDS AND PARENTING

Anita's Perspectives on Life.

HOW TO STAY CLOSE AND STILL LOVE

In today’s scenario, this topic is relevant for almost everyone who has matured children. To understand the need of the hour we shouldn’t refrain from this topic that all of us have to find detachment in the attachment within our families.

The problem: when adult children begin standing up to and getting out from under the thumb of parents. Parents often feel kids are drifting away from them emotionally. Such disconnection doesn’t feel better than enmeshment because we are programmed to stay connected to them.

But as we age our children also grow as mature men or women. They have their own opinions and choices. So as our kids mature, our relationship with them needs to mature as well.

We all know that friendship is the basis of every relationship. The challenge is to find a common ground without overstepping the comfortable boundaries…

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